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Four Essential Moves to Counteract Gaslighting in a Texas Divorce – Don’t Get Played!

11/7/2023

 
Gaslighting has become an increasingly common phenomenon in divorce cases. This form of psychological manipulation, where one individual causes another to question their reality, draws its name from the 1944 movie "Gaslight," where such tactics are central to the plot.

In divorce cases, the effects of gaslighting can be profound, influencing not just the emotional health of the individuals involved but also the legal proceedings. Although gaslighting is not directly named in Texas Family Law, the principles enshrined within it implicitly condemn such behavior. For instance, Texas Family Code Title 1, Subtitle C, Chapter 7, details the process of property division upon divorce, necessitating full disclosure and fair dealing between parties.

Individuals embroiled in a divorce who suspect gaslighting would be well-advised to:

1. Maintain Accurate Records: Keep an exhaustive log of all communications, financial statements and agreements with your spouse. These records are the best defense against gaslighting, and could be crucial in proving your case.

2. Secure Competent Legal Counsel: A lawyer with comprehensive knowledge of both the legal framework and the psychological dynamics of divorce can provide indispensable guidance. They can help you use the law to ensure that manipulative tactics do not infringe on your rights.

3. Enlist Financial Expertise: Should there be any ambiguity or deception in financial matters, a forensic accountant may be necessary. They can bring to light financial intricacies in accordance with Texas Family Code Title 1, Subtitle C, Chapter 7, which emphasizes a just and right division of assets.

4. Draw on Emotional Support: Relying on the support of family, friends, or professional counselors is crucial. This support network is invaluable as emotional backing in a process that Texas law aims to make equitable but which can be personally taxing.

For legal professionals like myself, protecting clients from gaslighting is part of ensuring they receive the justice and equitable treatment that Texas law is designed to provide. Legal representation is key in navigating the complexities of divorce, ensuring that one's rights are preserved and that the outcome aligns with the fair-minded spirit of the law.


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